What Are The Things Blocking Your Sex Life?

What Are The Things Blocking Your Sex Life?


Did you know that by releasing stuck energy from your entire body that you can crank up your magnetic love energy?

What is the blocked energy and how do you know what causes it?  

Stress, fear and anxiety are the three main personal reasons that are blocking my clients from satisfying sex and it isn't until they address these issues that their intimacy with their partner can improve. 

When you experience stress, fear or anxiety, sex is usually the last thing on your mind.

Trouble at work, not feeling great about your relationship, poor body image and issues with money and family can be devastating to your libido.  How can you feel sexy when you don't love who you see in the mirror, or you are worried about how you are going to pay the bills? 

Fear, anxiety and depression about ageing can also affect your sex drive. Are you worried about getting older?  

Depression Comes From Feeling Stuck 

According to medical experts, depression is caused by an imbalance of brain chemicals, along with other factors, including faulty mood regulation by the brain, genetic vulnerability, stressful life events, medications, and medical problems.  Energetically speaking, the cause of depression may stem from foreign energy stuck in your body.  When external power dims and over-shadows your energy, you become depressed. 

Remember being attracted to someone special in your life?  You are initially charmed by them because you admire something unique about them. You might think they are good-looking, funny or even confident. You like how you feel being with them and the sensations they provide to you. With every passing day, you start to adopt their energy as your own.   

When this happens, it is essential that the energy flows between the two of you.  If you don't release it back to your partner, the magnetism between you becomes depressed, and your relationship can become challenged. 

Like with computers, you cannot use MAC software in a PC. They each require their unique software to operate and process their functions. The same is valid for couples. The very vibe that attracted you to another person is the very thing that makes you sexually non-responsive, argumentative and emotional. It can affect your attitude, your health and your libido.  

Viagra And Low Self-Esteem

Viagra is a drug that only increases blood flow to the genital area to enhance physical, sexual stimulation in women or men. It cannot affect your body image, relationship or emotional issues that block your sexual function.  

Most people dislike some aspect of their bodies, especially women with children.   Body issues escalate when you stand in front of the mirror with negative self-talk.   We all can't look like Elle McPherson or Arnold Schwarzenegger now can we?  Personally, as a mother of four children, I have a stomach that will never be the six pack it was.  But I have a stomach I am proud of because it gave me one of the greatest gifts I have ever received - my children.  We all have something we don't like about our bodies, but if you can give it a different meaning and be proud of how healthy you are, your self-esteem will rise.

When you have good feelings about your body, you have fantastic feelings about your intimacy.

It is essential to keep loving yourself, flaws and all.  They are all part of you.   

Ensure a Healthy Body and Love Life 


Learn to release stress, fear and anxiety to ensure a healthy body. Eat a balanced diet, drink plenty of water, sleep at least eight hours a night, exercise regularly and practice relaxation techniques such as meditation or yoga.  Practice your self talk in front of the mirror daily.  A great idea is to place post it notes on the mirror stating what you love about yourself and what others say about you.

If you don't do it for your general health, maybe do it for your sex life!  

Let us know if you improved your self-love and self-esteem improved your sex life?

Carolyn Rowland has been a relationship therapist and coach for over seven years, working with many couples to produce happier relationships.  She now shares many of these ideas, real stories, and information for you on her daily blog.  Stay tuned for the very exciting news that Carolyn has a book, written predominately for men on relationships to be released soon.  Why for men, because the new book is based on Caz's real life experiences with her clients and what she realised is that men were the ones who needed help.

What others are saying about the book:

"The book is sensational. I have never read such down to earth correct observations and directions.  So proud of you taking the time to write this for men. It will make a much difference for us men and our relationships." - Michael.

Check out our other dating articles in the "relationship" section of Cazinc Blog.


Carolyn Rowland is a qualified NLP Master Therapist, Advanced Practitioner of Matrix Therapies, Time Line Therapist, Practitioner of Hypnotherapy, has a Diploma for Business and Life Coaching and A Professional Image Stylist.  Carolyn is happily married to her husband Simon, and raised four beautiful children, who are now young adults and a teenager.

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